Feb 23 2012
Keeping Your Cool When The Customer Gets Hot
A day in the life of a business person can be full of joy and satisfaction, or it can be frustrating and stressful. When things go wrong, some people lose control. Keeping a lid on emotions and reacting professionally under fire are not always easy. It is particularly hard to be nice to people that are not being nice to you.
So what to do to stay calm when the customer is chewing out? Most of the time, not even his fault. Could it be that the problem was with a product or service delivered by someone else in your organization. You are getting the blame for the unhappy person first met, and not nice. When faced with angry people, there are four key steps that will help diffuse the situation.
The first step is to apologize. “But,” you say, “not my fault.” No matter who is at fault, apologize anyway. As a representative of your company who have the responsibility to see that things are going well. His willingness to be accountable will have a positive effect. After all, it takes two to have an argument. If one of you refuses to be nasty you can not have a disagreement. You are not accepting blame, simply saying: “Sorry for the problem.” You’re wasting your breath unless you apologize with all sincerity, so make sure your voice matches your words.
The second step is to sympathize with the irate customer. Let the person know that you can identify with their feelings. Say that you understand the frustration of receiving a faulty product or poor service. The angry person begins to feel better as soon as their reaction has been validated.
The third step is to accept responsibility for the situation. Be responsible to the customer. Let her know you intend to do what it takes to make things right. You can not help what has already happened, but you get to a solution or to find someone who can.
The last step is to take action. Decide what you can do and say the customer. Will replace the defective product or wrong as quickly as possible. If the problem was a disservice to offer better service. Every time you can offer a bonus of some kind or waive fees, the tiger before you becomes a cat.
The acronym “ASAP” to remember these four steps to appease unhappy customers. Each letter represents part of the process.
A is “apologize”.
S stands for “sympathy”.
A synonym of “accepting responsibility”.
P means “prepare for action.”
Nothing will be solved by being argumentative and reactionary. Instead, diffuse the client’s anger by being apologetic and friendly and focus on positive steps to resolve the situation. Before you know it, your opponents will become your allies.
Oh yes, remember to smile. This will make everyone feel better and behave better.
